Erectile Dysfunction Destroys Relationships
I want you to hear actual words from men suffering with ED. These are quotes from men who visited a doctor’s office.
"My woman is thinking about leaving me because of this issue. You have to do something to help me."
This one nails it. This man’s wife has already told him she is thinking about leaving him.
"By having ED, it has affected my marriage because our sex life was really good. Now, there is none and it is not the same. I am not into cuddling and that stuff."
This one is huge. Women REQUIRE intimacy and touch. ED is not just about sex not happening. The fear of not being able to get hard often means that the man does not initiate touch or intimacy anymore. No sex. No touching. No intimacy. What woman would stay in a marriage like this?
"I am here because of my wife. This really doesn't bother me but it does her and I love her. Just because I can't get an erection doesn't mean she should be deprived."
This guy is really suffering. Ya, it’s all about her… Bullshit, Man.
"Let's be completely honest. Men state that they do this because of their wives, but I am doing this because of me! I need to be able to get erections and have sex with my wife."
Beautiful Fucking Honesty!
This guy is speaking what most men with ED feel, but are afraid to express.
A man wants and needs sex, intimacy, and pleasure.
A hard, reliable cock is at the core of what it means for a man to be a man.
Owning this simple human truth is a fantastic start to taking real action.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17253078
ED Destroys Marriages
ED is involved in one in five failed marriages (Wespes et al., 2002).
Psychosocial and relationship issues in men with ED
Impotence, aka ED, is legal grounds for divorce.
http://family-law.lawyers.com/divorce/grounds-for-divorce-impotence.html
This means that suffering in silence and not taking your ED seriously could results in divorce. She can dump your ass. She can take the kids with her. You may end up living in different house than the on your kids grow up in. This is fucking depressing, especially when ED is about 80-90% reversible.
You are Making Her Want to Cheat, Dumbass!
Women who are dissatisfied with their relationship are more than twice as likely to cheat.
By the way, the average rate of women cheating is about 19% of women in a committed, monogamous relationship (married or not).
Doubling that means a 38% chance of infidelity. 4 out of 10 wives will probably cheat if you don’t fix your Erectile Problem… and you can prevent all this.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21667234
If Your Marriage Does Not End the Results May Be EVEN WORSE
If she does not divorce you then you can look forward to a Dead Bedroom, with little touching and intimacy.
HER self esteem goes in the toilet as she feels responsible in some way. She may cheat IF YOU DON’T give her what every woman needs, namely intimacy, sex, pleasure and orgasm.
She may just become a hurt, angry, frustrated, nagging bitch… the sad truth is that you, MAN, pushed her down this path by not taking responsibility for your ED problem and seeking a REAL solution.
She may fuck other men since you can’t/won’t take care of this obvious marital and manly responsibility.
She may stay and be a nagging bitch that you (as the man who loves her) pushed her into becoming.
MAN UP and FIX YOUR PROBLEM before it’s too late.
Let’s be SUPER clear here. If you have ED and don’t fix it that is your fault. If you don’t pleasure her and touch her that is your fault. If she cheats from a lack of intimacy and sex that is your fault.
Not fixing ED kill marriages.
ED and the Single Man
The #1 complaint of women over 50 is, “He can’t get it up.”
No sane, sexually alive woman wants to date a man with ED. “He is a great guy, but he can’t fuck me.” --- no woman wants to say this to her friends… but she will.
“This is important to me because I feel incompetent at providing a girl with a satisfying experience via intercourse.”
Women want to be satisfied, touched and pleasured, and yes… fucked or made love to.
Men who can’t do this for them can be dropped politely or rudely, “I always knew you were a faggot!” (actual online quote from a guy’s story).
Men who are afraid of not performing won’t initiate sex.
Most men won’t initiate intimacy for the fear of where it leads… ultimate disappointment… and her rejecting you as a man.
All of the above assumes your had the balls to ask her out in the first place.
Asking women out is tough enough. Doing it when you suffer with ED is near impossible for many men. They create distractions to fill their loneliness. They watch TV. They play video games. They watch too much porn instead of pursuing and initiating sex & intimacy with REAL, FUCKING WOMEN.
Add ED and your confidence to pursue, woo, date, seduce and pursue attractive women goes into the toilet.
“Men with ED who are single were found to be unable to develop a new relationship…”
There it is… the ugly truth. ED means you are destined to be alone. It’s fucked up, but for most single men with ED it is the truth.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11888363
Men with ED are practically guaranteed to have Performance Anxiety. Performance Anxiety is the #4 most common sexual dysfunction men suffer with. You don’t know if your cock will get hard when the time is right. You don’t know if it will stay hard long enough to satisfy a woman.
Many men with ED are deathly afraid of a woman saying, “You can’t get hard, what good are you?”
She won’t return your phone calls after a night of failed sex.
Loneliness & depression can become a daily cloud hanging over your life.
Sex and Intimacy are Fucking Important
This may seem obvious to some of you. Clearly, for many of you it is not obvious.
Women need to be touched… Not want, NEED. Women need pleasure and orgasm. They need to feel wanted and desired. Be honest, man. You know this!!!
Any man who thinks otherwise has his head up his ass. If you let ED stop you from touching and intimacy you are kissing your relationship goodbye.
It’s not just about cuddling. It’s about giving the woman you love what she wants and needs from her man.
I want to share with you what some experts say about all of this.
A common issue among couples dealing with ED starts with failures of sexual advances. This can have an effect on issues of trust, intimacy, and closeness. The man withdraws emotionally and physically because of fear of failure. The partner starts to believe that the man is losing interest in her, thereby impacting self-esteem and feelings of attractiveness. In reality, the man is not losing interest but may be manifesting signs of frustration and humiliation of not being able to complete the sex act. Many men think it is inappropriate to need nurturance, admit that he needs a hug, or seek affection. So, they frequently do without the comfort and emotional support often more available for women. When a man cannot perform intercourse and satisfy his own and his partner's sexual needs, he can feel devastated and very much alone. From this cascade of events, the couple starts to alienate themselves emotionally and physically (Roy & Allen, 2004).
Partners who measure their self-esteem, femininity, and desirability by how men respond to their sexuality are particularly vulnerable to fears of abandonment and rejection. Men's emotional detachment feeds into these fears. Partners may worry that their mates may be impotent with them, but potent with another person, leaving them with fantasies of betrayal and infidelity. This issue can drive a couple apart because of fears and misconceptions when in reality the couple needs to communicate (LoPiccolo, 1999).
Dead Bedroom and NO SEX!
If you have ED your sex life is probably shit… or it is non-existent. Sex is one of the great pleasures we humans get to experience. Losing that can be devastating.
Sex can be truly deep and amazing. It brings couples together. It is one of life’s greatest experiences.
Do not let it become a fading memory.
Conclusions
ED is devastating to relationships. ED can easily prevent a relationship from ever happening. There is ZERO need for this to fucking happen.
There are natural supplements more effective than ED drugs, and without the un-sexy side effects like headaches and nausea.
ED is not something to bury you head in the sand about. If you are married, or in a committed relationship, you must act NOW. Don’t wait until more damage is done.
If you are single the confidence boost from having a hard, reliable cock again can change your life.